Courageous Steps- Planning to Separate

From fear and overwhelm to a clear, confident plan for leaving with dignity and control

You’ve made the decision to leave—but now what? You’re balancing work, kids, and life while trying to navigate one of the biggest transitions of your life. You don’t want chaos. You want a plan.

You want to make sure things are as easy as possible for the sake of your kids and you also don’t want to spend a fortune on legal bills. You may feel overwhelmed by questions like, 'How will they react?' or 'What will happen to the kids?' These concerns are valid, and you're not alone in facing them.

Let’s make sure you leave the right way—calmly, confidently, and on your terms.

Right Now, You Might Feel:
❌ Overwhelmed by what separation will mean for you and your children
❌ Unsure how to break the news or prepare for the conversation
❌ Afraid of conflict and how your ex will react
❌ Stuck in indecision and emotional exhaustion

After Doing Courageous Steps, You Will Feel:
✅ Confident in your decision—no more second-guessing
✅ Clear on how to communicate your decision with as little conflict as possible
✅ Prepared for the legal, financial, and emotional steps ahead
✅ In control of your future, knowing exactly what to do next

💡 This isn’t just about leaving—it’s about leaving the right way, with confidence, dignity, and a plan that sets you up for a secure future.

Courageous Steps is perfect for you if:

🔹You’re worried about your financial future. You’re not alone. With this package, I’ll help you:
✔️ Understand what divorce really means for your money and assets
✔️ Learn how to negotiate a fair settlement in a way that doesn’t escalate legal fees
✔️ Plan your financial future so you can maintain the lifestyle you’ve built

🔹You’re worried about what people will think. With this package, I’ll help you:
✔️ Work through guilt so you feel confident in your decision
✔️ Set boundaries so you don’t get emotionally pulled back in
✔️ Plan for a future that excites you—not one you’re afraid of

In the Courageous Steps package we will cover:
✔️ How to prepare for the conversation with your husband—so you feel calm and in control
✔️ How to protect your finances and secure your future
✔️ How to manage your emotions so this doesn’t impact your work or children
✔️ How to leave with dignity, avoiding drama and regret

Why Work With Me?

  • Practical, no-nonsense guidance – No fluff, just clear steps to get you through this.

  • Experienced & understanding – I’ve been on the other side so know what works and what doesn’t! I’ve also helped many others through this process.

  • Focused on solutions, not drama – We cut through fear and uncertainty to get you results.

  • I understand that the thought of initiating a separation can be daunting. Concerns about judgment, financial security, and the well-being of your children are completely natural. You're not alone in this journey.

The investment?

This is a 3 month support package providing you with 4 x 1:1 sessions via zoom, including email support throughout and membership of my Empowered Divorce Hub for the 3 month period. Investment just £495! Imagine moving from constant anxiety to a place of calm and control, where you have a solid plan for your future and your children's well-being. This package gives you exactly what you need to separate with confidence—without unnecessary stress, fear, or legal costs spiralling out of control. If you’re feeling uncertain but know you can’t stay where you are, this is for you.

The longer you wait, the more uncertainty and stress can build.

Take the first courageous step. This call isn’t about making any final decisions—it’s about getting the right guidance so you feel prepared and in control. No pressure, no obligation—just a safe space to start planning your future.

Book your free strategy call now — not because you’re ready to leave, but because you’re ready to stop feeling stuck.

If you aren’t quite ready to invest in a one to one package of support, you could also look at my Empowered Divorce Hub, which has a whole section on planning to leave your marriage. Or start with my free guide on preparing to leave.

“I had been debating about leaving for so long and never had the courage to do so. Cath took me through the process step by step so I finally found the strength to finally leave. Whilst that conversation was difficult, it went far better than I ever imagined thanks to knowing what to say, what to expect and how to respond.”

Jane

My personalised STEP Programme:

  • Strategy and Support

    I take the time to understand your unique situation and the challenges you’re worried about when talking to your spouse. Together, we’ll create a strategy that feels right for you and gives you the confidence to handle the conversation effectively

  • Tools and Techniques

    You’ll need to build your emotional toolkit for this journey, and that’s exactly what I’ll help you with. I’ll also teach you techniques for effective communication and conflict management to make the process as smooth as possible for everyone involved.

  • Empowerment

    With a clear understanding of the divorce process, you’ll feel more confident and empowered in conversations. Knowing your rights and obligations will help you avoid being blindsided or spending money unnecessarily.

  • Practical Steps

    I’ll help you plan those important conversations with your spouse and children, so things go as smoothly as possible. Together, we’ll also prepare for potential reactions and how to handle them calmly and confidently