Courageous Steps- Planning to Separate

The only support package you need when you are ready to leave and take back the reigns.

The decision’s been made, you know you need to leave and in comes the worry, how will they take this decision? OMG what will the kids say? What will we do with the house? How will I cope financially? 

You want to make sure things are as easy as possible for the sake of your kids and you also don’t want to spend a fortune on legal bills.

You’re ready to take the next step and share the news with respect and compassion. Divorce takes strength and guidance, which is why "Courageous Steps" is here to help. This package gives you the support you need to approach the conversation, understand the legal process, manage financial planning, prioritise your emotional well-being, and reduce conflict. You’ll get the tools and knowledge to handle this challenging time with confidence. 

This package will provide you with:

  • Effective Communication with Spouse and Children

    • Personalised scripts and advice for discussing divorce with your spouse

    • Age-appropriate strategies for talking to children about divorce

    • Techniques for maintaining open and honest communication

  • A Clear Understanding of the Legal Process

    • Step-by-step guidance through legal procedures

    • Information on your rights and obligations

    • Guidance on the necessary documentation

  • Financial Planning and Security

    • Insight into how finances are negotiated and the best ways to do this

    • Information on what financial information you will require

    • Support with budgeting and ensuring best value on necessary costs

  • Emotional Support and Well-being

    • Access to a range of tools and techniques for managing emotions

    • Insight into what your spouse is likely to be feeling and how they may react

    • Understanding of the stress response system

  • Conflict Reduction and Resolution

    • Practical tools for reducing and managing conflict

    • Mediation and negotiation techniques

    • Guidance on maintaining a cooperative co-parenting relationship during separation

With "Courageous Steps," you gain a comprehensive support system to help you transition smoothly through the divorce process, ensuring you are well-prepared, emotionally supported, and financially secure.

My personalised STEP Programme:

  • Strategy and Support

    I take the time to understand your unique situation and the challenges you’re worried about when talking to your spouse. Together, we’ll create a strategy that feels right for you and gives you the confidence to handle the conversation effectively

  • Tools and Techniques

    You’ll need to build your emotional toolkit for this journey, and that’s exactly what I’ll help you with. I’ll also teach you techniques for effective communication and conflict management to make the process as smooth as possible for everyone involved.

  • Empowerment

    With a clear understanding of the divorce process, you’ll feel more confident and empowered in conversations. Knowing your rights and obligations will help you avoid being blindsided or spending money unnecessarily.

  • Practical Steps

    I’ll help you plan those important conversations with your spouse and children, so things go as smoothly as possible. Together, we’ll also prepare for potential reactions and how to handle them calmly and confidently

“I had been debating about leaving for so long and never had the courage to do so. Cath took me through the process step by step so I finally found the strength to finally leave. Whilst that conversation was difficult, it went far better than I ever imagined thanks to knowing what to say, what to expect and how to respond.”

Jane

"Courageous Steps" is perfect if you’re looking for a well-rounded approach to divorce. Together, we’ll tackle all the key aspects of this life-changing decision. From legal and financial guidance to compassionate emotional support and practical conflict-management strategies, this package gives you everything you need to face each challenge with confidence and clarity.

This comprehensive support system empowers you to make informed decisions, communicate effectively with your family, and maintain your emotional well-being throughout the process.

This is an 8 week support package providing you with 4x 1:1 sessions via zoom, including 8 week email/messenger support, relevant resources and recommendations. Investment just £495.

You can book a breakthrough consultation to discuss if this package is right for you or to discuss payment plans.