Divorce Coach
Hi, I’m Cath, and I help people who are questioning their marriage find a clear path forward. Whether you stay or leave, I’ll guide you through practical, positive steps to make the right choice—without fear, regret, or unnecessary conflict.
Where are you on your divorce journey? click the appropriate link
Planning to leave-stay right here
Is it time to leave your marriage?
Right now, you’re probably feeling torn—one part of you knows you’re unhappy, but another part is paralysed by fear. What if I make the wrong decision? How will I manage financially? What about the kids? The thought of leaving feels overwhelming, but staying feels just as impossible. I can tell you this: you don’t have to figure this out alone.
Making the decision to leave a marriage isn’t just about emotions—it’s about clarity, planning, and knowing you’re making the right choice for your future. That’s where I come in. I help professionals and entrepreneurs like you untangle the confusion, silence the fear, and create a clear, confident plan—whether that means leaving with as little conflict as possible or finally making peace with your decision to stay. This isn’t about rushing into anything. It’s about making the right choice with certainty.
If you’re lying awake at night, consumed by “what-ifs” and feeling stuck in a life that no longer fits, let’s talk.
Stop feeling stuck. Let’s talk about your next step—free, no pressure. Book a free consultation today or download my free guide and together, we’ll create a path forward that feels right for you. You don’t have to do this alone—I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
Signs you’re struggling…
You might be feeling emotionally drained and unsure what to do next. If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone:
You’re constantly overthinking—replaying conversations, second-guessing yourself, and feeling stuck in “what ifs.”
You’re feeling disconnected - conversations feel forced or surface-level
You avoid spending time with your partner—choosing work, social plans, or even scrolling on your phone to escape.
Small things trigger big reactions—you find yourself snapping, withdrawing, or feeling resentful.
You keep hoping something will change—but deep down, you know things haven’t been right for a long time.
You’ve confided in a friend —but still feel lost on what to do next.
You’re Googling divorce laws - but that just makes you worry more
If this sounds like you, then something needs to change!
Why working with me is going to solve a lot of those problems!
Deciding whether to leave a marriage is overwhelming—but you don’t have to do it alone. I help people just like you find clarity, confidence, and a clear path forward, so you can make the right decision without fear, regret, or unnecessary conflict. Together, we’ll untangle your emotions, address your biggest worries, and create a plan that feels right for you. Whether that means leaving with a strategy in place or finding a way to rebuild your relationship, I’ll guide you through practical, positive steps—so you stop feeling stuck and start feeling in control.
Still undecided?
Struggling with the decision to stay or leave?
✔️ Get clear on your feelings
✔️ Understand your options
✔️ Make a decision you feel confident about
Why have a coach to support you through a divorce?
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Expertise
Friends can be a great source of support but they don’t have the training or knowledge to really help you in this situation. I can provide a safe space without judgement and a tailored approach can make all the difference.
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Experience
I have been through a divorce myself so I know how hard it can be. Nobody really understands unless they have been through it themselves and even then, every divorce is different. I am also living proof of what a positive life after divorce can look like.
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Knowledge
Being a certified divorce coach means I have learned the necessary skills and techniques to advise and support you. I also have a completed a range of other certified training that has given me the practicalities and emotional support techniques to help you at all stages of this journey.
You know you need a coach when:
You feel stuck in indecision—going back and forth but never getting any closer to a clear answer.
Your emotions are running the show—fear, guilt, or overwhelm are keeping you paralysed.
You’re exhausted from overthinking—constantly replaying conversations and imagining worst-case scenarios.
You don’t know where to start—the idea of leaving feels impossible, but so does staying.
You want to do this the right way—with clarity, confidence, and as little conflict as possible.
Working with me
Using my personalised STEP Programme, I provide the practical tools, techniques, and guidance you need to leave your marriage with clarity, confidence, and control. I’ll help you plan your exit in a way that minimises conflict, protects your future, and empowers you to move forward with dignity and resilience.
I can empower you to:
✔️ Manage overwhelming emotions so fear and guilt don’t control your decisions.
✔️ Stay calm and in control as you navigate this major life change.
✔️ Cope with anxiety about the unknown and create a clear plan forward.
✔️ Decide on your next steps so you feel less overwhelmed by the process.
✔️ Make life-changing decisions that you feel fully comfortable and confident with.
✔️ Avoid and resolve unnecessary conflict, even in difficult conversations.
✔️ Separate amicably and with as little stress as possible.
✔️ Rebuild your confidence and rediscover who you are outside of this marriage.
✔️ Let go of the past and step into your new future with clarity and strength.
✔️ Spend your hard-earned money wisely, so you don’t rack up unnecessary legal fees.
“Cath helped me greatly during a life changing transition and I really looked forward to my appointment with her. She helped me clarify a lot which direction I wanted to go. It also helped me to shed light on some relationships I have, to be clearer on where I stand in the dynamics. I would definitely recommend her as a coach! “
Ameriga
“Cath is a great listener and got to the root of issues quickly by cutting through the chafe and bringing clarity. Cath is firm yet supportive so you feel confident to become unstuck and move forward”
“Cath was really wonderful in helping me to move forward. I learned to catch negative thoughts and better handle my emotions. It was so great to talk to someone who had been through the process and can understand all the feelings that come with it. ”
“I found your manner very kind and reassuring. It felt nice to have someone talking to me who understood what I was going through and I appreciated in particular the lessons on emotions and how the feelings I was having are quite normal.”
Additional Support
Are you struggling with the emotional side of your separation or divorce?
Thinking about leaving your relationship and asking yourself whether now is the time to stay or go?
Check out my free guides or join my free Facebook group: Divorce First Aid for Women
